There are dozens of "HOT LINES" anyone can call, at any time and, say that they saw you drag a little child into a public restroom. Actually, they can say anything the like because no one holds them to account for the truthfulness of their allegations. They don't have to identify themselves, and when it's over, so is your life. Your name goes on the Central Registry, and you are a known abuser for the rest of your life. What, don't believe me? Just type "ABUSE HOT LINES" into any Internet search engine, and see what happens. The problem is so bad that the US Army recently had to shut down one of it's hot lines because so many people were using it for revenge.
Once your name goes on the Central Registry, good luck getting it off. Almost no one ever gets their name removed. It only takes one call to ruin your life.
Most of us have overlooked the motivation behind what has happened to us, money. Without the federal money that comes form making false allegations against us, most of theses agencies would be out of business. How else are social workers, judges, prosecutors going to make their mortgage payments, VISA payments, and car payments. "Whenever someone says it's not the money, it's the money.
Many of us have been fighting this for years without results. Just solutions are rare, because, by ourselves, we have no political, or legal clout. Also, the state courts are crooked. You have to get the bad guys into a federal court (and the right federal court at that) to get a fair hearing, and you need political strength to force changes in the law. I wish that I could tell you that there are easy answers, but I can't.
Are you trying to fight this alone? Is it working. If any of us are going to win, we all have to work together. As things stand now, politicians, judges, lawyers, and the general public, have us pegged as "just a few crazy malcontents". We need to be organized to overcome this attitude. Just look at what the Sierra Club, the NRA, the National Organization of Women, and others do, and you will see what we've to do. Until we get it done, we will continue to suffer with no hope of relief.
The time for talk is over. People in positions of authority have not understood what we've been telling them, in part because they don't want to understand, and in part because our people have been saying it the wrong way. Politicians understand large, organized groups who are willing to vote them out of office, and bureaucrats understand large federal court judgments. It's time for to stop playing activist (or worse, patsy) and take direct action. Votes and judgments are the languages that we should be speaking.
There are 22 million of us who have been put through this living hell. If we only get 20% of them to join us, we would have the largest, organization, of it's type, in the world. We don't even need to get 4 and 1/2 million members to do the job, but you can see from this, how easy it would be to stop the tyranny. All we have to do is get a small portion of them to sign on, and we will have the power to see justice done.
Congressional elections are 16 months away. That's plenty of time for us to have a significant impact. Many people in congress know that there is a serious problem, but they won't do anything about it until they are forced to. As long as we keep doing things the way we have been, we aren't much of a force. However, if we show even a hint of ability to organize, it will be enough to get the attention of some of the people in congress.
What we don't have time for is more talk, more procrastination, or more waiting around to see what others are going to do. We all have to act, and act now.
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